Make Your Peace

There were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger." Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests."

~ The Gospel of Luke 2:8-14 (NIV)

Is there some secret recipe for success in tough times? Based upon what I've seen and read in headlines and promotions from marketers lately, it appears that they have some new revelation for leading us through the tumultuous sea and into the promised land. After deeper reflection, it causes me to ponder why this revelation wasn't shared sooner to keep us from experiencing these tough times in the first place.

All cynicism aside, I recently posed a question to a colleague seeking insight regarding what styles of leadership should be employed during the most difficult times. You know, when you feel like you're on a boat in the middle of the ocean all alone with not even a paddle to offer a glimmer hope that you might have the power to change your circumstance...HEY, CAN I GET A BUOY!

My colleague was frank and succinct with his reply:

"The same principles we've been taught all these years work when all is healthy and prospering, as well as during a period of difficulty."

As leaders, we have the tremendous opportunity to be heralds of peace to our families, friends, and colleagues. However, we won't convincingly deliver a message of peace if we're inwardly ruled by fear.

Let In...
The loved ones in your life. Laugh together, cry together, share stories. Take joy in being with the friends and family who care about you most. Pause, reflect, and be reminded of what matters most- relationships.

Reach Out...
To those in need. Brooding on our problems sinks us into the ugly muck of self-pity. To counteract self-pity, take intentional steps to help another person in need. Strangely enough, you may find that being generous pulls you out of the dreariness of your circumstances. Focusing on another person's world takes your mind off of whatever may be wrong in your own. Giving our time and resources helps us to regain perspective on the most meaningful pursuit in life -helping others.

Look Up...
To heaven. If you're a person of faith, make time to draw from the reservoir of comfort that can be found in belief. Celebrate the traditions of your religion, spend time in prayer, and partake of the hope offered by your faith.

Whatever you decide, use the principles you've been taught and believe in to find your path to peace. If you can't find one, those same principles will help you make one.